Everyone has a different way of coping with events in life.  For me, getting away and writing tends to be my coping mechanism.  When I was dealing with the adultery of my spouse and subsequent divorce, I was away a lot.  I also wrote a lot.

As a friend of mine suggested, there should be some point to my divorce–other than the obvious end of my marriage.  Why not provide some pathway and thoughts to others who may be dealing with the issue of adultery?  When I look back, the issues I faced are much clearer.

Now, I see what I did wrong; but I also see what I did right.  I can clearly see the red flags that were madly waving–red flags that I ignored or just did not see at the time.

Perhaps I can give you some insight into the challenges you face.  Perhaps, since I have walked down that road and can now look back, I can help guide you through some of the issues.